Refactor `open_virtual_dataset` and `open_virtual_mfdataset` API to match `virtualizarr`

[ayushnag]

Currently earthaccess.open_virtual_mfdataset is implementing some logic that should be in virtualizarr. We should remove this logic from earthaccess and simplify the current implementation. Then the earthaccess API will only add logic for unwrapping results and logic for a few convenience params like load and access. The rest of the arguments will be directly passed to virtualizarr. The change to open_virtual_mfdataset needs virtualizarr.open_virtual_mfdataset to be implemented upstream. cc @betolink @TomNicholas

Here is my suggested API change:

def open_virtual_dataset(
    granule: earthaccess.DataGranule,
    access: str = "indirect",
    load: bool = False,
    use_dmrpp: bool = True,
   **vz_open_virtual_dataset_kwargs
) -> xr.Dataset:

def open_virtual_mfdataset(
    granule: list[earthaccess.DataGranule],
    access: str = "indirect",
    load: bool = False,
    use_dmrpp: bool = True,
   **vz_open_virtual_mfdataset_kwargs
) -> xr.Dataset:

[asteiker]

@betolink @danielfromearth Is this now OBE? Or has some relation to #1074?