Auto merge of #129369 - madsmtm:apple-cc-linker-pass-target, r=jieyouxu

Pass deployment target when linking with CC on Apple targets

This PR effectively implements what's also being considered in the `cc` crate [here](rust-lang/cc-rs#1030 (comment)), that is:
- When linking macOS targets with CC, pass the `-mmacosx-version-min=.` option to specify the desired deployment target. Also, no longer pass `-m32`/`-m64`, these are redundant since we already pass `-arch`.
- When linking with CC on iOS, tvOS, watchOS and visionOS, only pass `-target` (we assume for these targets that CC forwards to Clang).

This is required to get the linker to emit the correct `LC_BUILD_VERSION` of the final binary. See rust-lang/rust#129432 for more motivation behind this change.

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CC `@BlackHoleFox`

Author: bors