chore(deps): bump deps and address urfave v3 breaking changes

[ecrupper]

Always nice to be able to ditch a util function

See urfave/cli#2094 for more context on the urfave updates

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 52.94118% with 8 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 56.72%. Comparing base (35e61d8) to head (7b94bfe).
Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
cmd/vela-server/server.go	0.00%	5 Missing ⚠️
api/types/settings/platform.go	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
cmd/vela-server/scm.go	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
compiler/native/native.go	66.66%	1 Missing ⚠️

❌ Your project status has failed because the head coverage (56.72%) is below the target coverage (90.00%). You can increase the head coverage or adjust the target coverage.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #1307      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   56.71%   56.72%   +0.01%     
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  Files         636      636              
  Lines       35676    35668       -8     
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  Hits        20232    20232              
+ Misses      14823    14815       -8     
  Partials      621      621              

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
cmd/vela-server/flags.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
database/context.go	90.00% <100.00%> (ø)
database/flags.go	68.18% <ø> (ø)
scm/flags.go	100.00% <ø> (ø)
util/util.go	20.19% <ø> (+1.44%)	⬆️
api/types/settings/platform.go	71.05% <0.00%> (ø)
cmd/vela-server/scm.go	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
compiler/native/native.go	80.88% <66.66%> (ø)
cmd/vela-server/server.go	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)

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[delta592]

looks good