add ability to pass a tracer into BlockSimulate

[macfarla]

PR description

Add method to BlockSimulate that accepts a custom tracer.
Note there is a limitation that this cannot be used with the EthSimulateV1 option to trace eth transfers. This PR includes a short term quick fix (throw an ex if both are specified) for this, since Glamsterdam will implement tracing of eth transfers by default.

Fixed Issue(s)

Refs #9639

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