ci: add lintrunner for clang-format and pyrefly

[d4l3k]

As titled. This allows users to run basic lint (clang-format and pyrefly for Python types) in OSS.

This recently was an issue in #57 as OSS contributors can't see lint results.

The adapters were largely copied from pytorch/pytorch and the versions+configs match fbcode.

For CI, we skip building the backends and only build the torchcomms frontend to check the py/pyi files.

Test plan:

pip install -v -e '.[dev]' --no-build-isolation
lintrunner init
lintrunner --all-files

[arkadip-maitra]

thanks