add tapdata to the big data category, also provided some recommendations for the data category section

[tjworks]

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[tjworks]

Recommendation for the data technology categories:

Operational Databases

All the rest

Analytical Databases

hadoop / clickhouse / dorisdb / hashdata / kylingence 

Analytical Engine

Spark / Impala / Piflow

Messaging, Streaming & Processing

kafka / Pulsar / Tapdata

Storage Systems

Ceph