Node: Support using node:sqlite driver

[simolus3]

This adds work-in-progress support for using node:sqlite3 as a driver in addition to better-sqlite3. Because there are no update hooks in that driver, this requires powersync-ja/powersync-sqlite-core#120 to be released first.

Most tests seem to work, but there are some failures I still need to investigate. We also need to figure out how to import node:sqlite properly, we can't use a regular import because node:sqlite is not available on older Node versions we still want to support. A dynamic import seems to work for ESM, but rollup doesn't properly translate it to a require call.

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[rkistner]

This looks quite promising!

If this works well, we could perhaps switch to node:sqlite by default when we do a v1.0 release, moving better-sqlite3 support to a separate package or import (removing it from the default dependencies).

I'm also wondering: Could we use the same approach for update notifications for better-sqlite3? Would that allow us to switch back to upstream better-sqlite3, or are there other blockers currently?