enforce a floor on libnvjitlink, build wheels with CUDA 13.0.x, test wheels against mix of CTK versions

[jameslamb]

Description

Fixes #5443

Contributes to rapidsai/build-planning#257

• builds CUDA 13 wheels with the 13.0 CTK
• ensures wheels ship with a runtime dependency of nvidia-nvjitlink>={whatever-minor-version-they-were-built-against}

Contributes to rapidsai/build-planning#256

• updates wheel tests to cover a range of CTK versions (we previously, accidentally, were only testing the latest 12.x and 13.x)

Other changes

• ensures conda packages also take on floors of libnvjitlink>={whatever-version-they-were-built-against}

Notes for Reviewers

How I tested this

This uses wheels from similar PRs from RAPIDS dependencies, at build and test time:

• enforce a floor on libnvjitlink, build wheels with CUDA 13.0.x, test wheels against mix of CTK versions cudf#21671
• build wheels with CUDA 13.0.x, test wheels against mix of CTK versions kvikio#942
• build wheels with CUDA 13.0.x, test wheels against mix of CTK versions raft#2971
• build wheels with CUDA 13.0.x, test wheels against mix of CTK versions rmm#2270
• build wheels with CUDA 13.0.x, test wheels against mix of CTK versions ucxx#604

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[jameslamb]

/ok to test

[jameslamb]

Relying on the libnvjitlink-dev run_exports to get the right runtime pin for libnvjitlink.

See rapidsai/cudf#21671 (comment)

[gforsyth]

/merge

[rapids-bot]

Failed to merge PR using squash strategy.

[gforsyth]

/merge