Add start/stop option to dashboard and command line option to disable auto-start

[csteeg]

I didn't see PR #948 before, but it's kind of the same feature, so this one is also #876

This feature is because our dev-team wanted to have the @dalibormesaric in #948
We have quite a large set up with loads of services in Tye and watching them all can be stressful for the developer's environment. So, we just want to quit the one service you're working on in Tye and use visual studio for that service.

The other scenario is that we quickly want to start just a few services to test or reproduce something without starting the complete environment. Therefore, I placed the buttons on the overview page instead of the service page, and added a command-line option to skip startup for specific projects (eg we have a Microsoft Fhir server project in there taking quite some time and resources). Now I could also say skip "*" so no project starts automatically and just spint up like the 3 services I need atm from the dashboard

This PR also works for docker containers that are running + I chose to reuse the created method to start the services by adding a reference to the method on the service object. This way we don't have to inject the processrunner anywhere.

[davidfowl]

Seems like alot of features in a single PR. Can you split these out into separate changes? Seems like your ingress changes are in here too. I assume that's unintentional?

[csteeg]

Yes sorry about that, I created my new wishes (there are even more on my current main branch) in one branch hoping that I could do them 1 by 1, but decided to pick the features and create a PR for them separately later. This one now only contains the start/stop feature

[allensiho]

Looks like great feature,
If merged how long before available to public?
Cheers